Video Recap:  Always remember that YOU are the prize!

What do I mean by this?

I mean that in any conversation... especially when you are trying to make it hot and heavy... always remember what YOU have to offer.

I used to make the mistake of thinking I didn't deserve all this attention or...

Video Recap: Whenever you meet a new woman online or get a woman's number, always START SLOW when you message her.

What does it mean to 'start slow'?

A few things...

1) Start slow with your response time - 

By starting slow you give her time to become more comfortable with you.  If...

Video Recap: As guys we sometimes over explain ourselves to women.  Since women like to connect and 'read between the lines', it is much better to talk LESS and let her CONNECT the dots more.

This is one of those weird rules/habits to get used to because as men we really value clarity...

You may have heard that sometimes women put men through 'tests' to see how they handle themselves in the early stages of dating.

This is just part of the 'power dynamics' or subtle power games that are always at play in the early stages of dating

(even if YOU don't want them to be at play, and...

Video Recap: If you start out your first message with a really LONG message and put a lot of effort in, the girl will naturally feel like she has to put less effort into the conversation, which will result in her sending you shorter and shorter messages.

Think of this like Yin and Yang...

Video Recap: If a woman wants you to change something about yourself or your life, THAT is just a red flag letting you know that her ATTRACTION for you is slipping.

Men come to me all the time with questions covering this idea of:

"My girlfriend/ex/wife always tries to make me 'change' things...

Video Recap: If you do ALL the work and put all the effort into the conversation, she will get bored and move on to someone else.

i know this seems odd.

I know as men we are raised to 'give her the world'

I know we grow up being told to 'always pursue her, let her know how you feel'

But...

Video Recap: When you are trying to get your ex back or get out of the 'friend zone' the number 1 thing you need to do is to CHANGE THE PATTERN of how the relationship has gone in the past.

A woman needs to first see that you have 'changed' in some way in order to be curious enough to give you a...

Video Recap: Waiting longer to text her back is ALWAYS a good move.  ALWAYS.  

Whenever a girl sends you a text message,

Make Her Wait.

I know you will want to text her,

I know you want to hear from her,

I know you want to know if she likes you back.

BUT all of those goals...

Video Recap:  By disagreeing with women you show her that you are not a pushover and that you have personality and your own views and beliefs on things.

Now the important thing here is to not take this too far.

The idea is NOT to annoy her by trying to disagree with everything she says, the...