First messaging mistakes men make online

Video Recap: If you start out your first message with a really LONG message and put a lot of effort in, the girl will naturally feel like she has to put less effort into the conversation, which will result in her sending you shorter and shorter messages.

Think of this like Yin and Yang...

When one person sends LONG messages, the other one will balance out the energy by sending shorter messages.

Although at first she may send you a few long messages back, eventually she will let you start the conversations and keep the conversations going if you are always putting effort in.

I know this seems like a total bummer but just realize in the DATING stage it is better to put in 'less effort'.  

Remember -

A woman wants to know that you aren't going to be a CLINGY, STALKER like a lot of the men she meets online. 

By doing LESS you are showing her you are not a guy that is going to freak out and get super creepy/clingy down the road.

-Adam