The Social Gap Disaster 

This page will break down what I personally believe may be the most important concept to understand about dating today.  

The 'Social Gap' is a cultural phenomenon that is ruining MOST relationships between men and women today.  This has everything to do with your 'Social IQ' compared to hers.  Be sure to tune in.  

The Goal :
Understand the 'Social Gap' 
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Look around you at relationships you see between men and women.  You will start to notice this 'Social Gap' phenomenon.  

And until this is more widely understood, there will be continuous 'heartbreak' for MOST people involved.  

The Difference Between Your Social Skills : 
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This 'Social Gap' is basically your level of 'Game' with the opposite sex (or your romantic interest).  

Between you and the woman, WHO is more experienced in 'intersexual dynamics' between men and women...

Is it you or her that is more competent?

Your Social IQs Should Be Similar : 
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IF there is too much of an imbalance in your 'Social IQ' with the other person - there will be problems.

This is ESPECIALLY true if the woman has a higher 'Social IQ' than the man because of her innate Hypergamy.  

*Check out my Redpill Hypergamy page here if you are unfamiliar with Hypergamy*

Hypergamy + The Social Gap : 
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Hypergamy simplified is that a woman wants the highest-status man that she believes she can 'attain' or get commitment from.

So... IF a woman believes she has a higher 'social IQ' than you... she will subconsciously feel that she can 'do better' and therefore will always have wandering eyes in a sense.  

Remember this will be SUBCONSCIOUS for her, so she won't even know WHY but she will just feel there isn't a 'spark' with you anymore.  

The Problem is This Gap is Widening :  
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Because the internet has 'connected the world' it has sped up this Social Gap problem.

The completely average woman now can have almost unlimited options due to dating apps and social media.  This gives her WAY more experience to develop this Social IQ than an average guy.

However - the top 10-20% of the highest 'Social IQ' men sit at the TOP of the food chain with unlimited options.  

MOST Women Compete After FEW Men :
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Since a woman's Hypergamy always strives for HIGHER and BETTER, now we have almost all available single women out there hoping and aspiring for one of these same 10-20% high Social IQ men.

See the problem?  

The 'average guy' now struggles with an 'average woman' and any below average man now has almost no hope in this new Social Gap dilemma.  

The Result is a Broken Heart Cycle :
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This creates a cycle of broken hearts.  You have average women that can go on so many dates with so many different men that they grow this high 'Social IQ'.

Now when an average woman goes on a date with an average guy, she almost immediately loses sexual interest because she feels this 'gap' and subconsciously feels she can do better than him.  

The Compound Effect Over Time :
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Think about this from the Compound Effect point of view.  The more you practice something, you gain such a huge advantage OVER TIME than the average person.  

So when a single woman goes on 20, 30, even 50+ new dates in a year... that adds up over time.

Especially in todays world where women are encouraged to be 'single and empowered' and spend their entire 20s and sometimes even their 30s JUST dating around.

This Also Results in a Broken Heart Cycle :
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Contrast this with the average man.  The average man has a hard time getting matches online, has a hard time getting women to meet up with him, and has a hard time getting women he likes to want to sleep with him.  

A woman at 25 years old vs a man at 25 years old - there very well may be HUNDREDS of more dates that woman went on than that man did.  That Compounding Effect of date experience will easily be noticed by her.  

Women Control Men in Most Relationships:
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If women have a higher 'social IQ' than all but 10-20% of men...

That means in over 80% of relationships, the woman is 'in control'.  She is the one with the higher 'Social IQ' so she is able to manipulate her man to do what she wants.  

Look around you, does it seem like the woman is actually in control in 4 out of 5 relationships that you know of?  

In my own personal life - this seems to be pretty accurate of relationships I observe.  

Stud Men Sit at the Top of the Foodchain :
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The average woman may have a higher social IQ than the average man... but because of a woman's Hypergamy... they ALL strive for one of the top of the top men.

This means that these 'Stud Men' have practice with all types of women.  They learn to 'play the game' better than the best women do.  

Hypergamy works against MOST men but it actually works in the favor of the top 20% of men, because women are consumed with trying to lock one of these men down to commitment.  

These Stud Men Don't Need to Settle or Commit to One Woman :
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This is where is all comes crashing down.  Because the top 20% of men can get dates and sex with unlimited amounts of women... they no longer even have to settle down or commit to a relationship.

This means that MOST women will feel 'too entitled' to date average men who they see as lower Social IQ.

And these same women, MOST of them won't be able to get one of these top men they want to commit to them.  They are chasing an unfulfillable dream.  

The Curse of Hypergamy Strikes :
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This is where it gets painful for both men and women.  Since today's society encourages and praises women to 'sleep around' and 'date around' it creates this Curse. 

When a woman meets a reasonable good guy that SHOULD be a great fit for her...  That back in the 'old days' WOULD have been a great fit for her... 

She now has been on so many more dates and has developed her 'Game' way more than he has, so she feels she can do better.

IF she ends up 'giving him a chance' she subconsiously looks down on him and takes him for granted because she still feels she could have done better and had to 'settle'.  

This Creates Another Broken Heart Cycle :
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These women out on the 'Cock Carousel' dating around and chasing one of these high 'social IQ' men...

They will try and try and try to lock one of these men down, but he usually will give her 'false hope' in a sense, because he has no intention of committing to a longterm relationship with her.  

She may even treat one of these guys like a King, but it still isn't enough for him.  Just like on the flip side when men or simps will give a woman 'the world' it just isn't enough.

This creates jaded 'Alpha Widow' women that start to think ALL men are bad (because the Alphas they want won't commit).  

Bigger Problems - How Women Grow Up :
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Even before this huge social advantage in the dating game, think of how women grow up...

They are typically more social, chatty, and interested in talking about all things people and relationships.  Even reading the 'Cosmo' or 'People' magazine on relationship tips.

Bigger Problems - How Men Grow Up :
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Contrast that with how men grow up...

We are typically bonding over achievements, activities, tasks, or competitions with one another.  

We rarely spend our time together focusing on talking about relationships or girls... you get called a Simp if you try

This Gap is Growing Farther Apart :
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This problem is only going to get worse. With better and better technology and after the great Scamdemic of 2020... more and more men are going to be opting out of the 'social' game.

However... women will continue to connect with one another and continue to date around with the dating apps and social media.  This will FURTHER widen this gap in the future.  

The Result is Another Broken Heart Cycle :
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This cycle will continue of more and more women having a higher social IQ than the men they 'settle' with - therefore giving them the power in the relationship.

But women are attracted to men with power - and the high Social IQ men that she couldn't get to commit to her HAD that power over her.

So these relationships will be unfulfilling to the women... and the man she 'settled' with will forever have an impossible task of never completely being able to meet her desires.  

The Social Gap in Action -
Video Breakdown :
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Check out an example of this 'Social Gap' by analyzing this video by a company called The Cut where they play a dating game with strangers.

This show uses this talking 'button' to basically display this 'Social Gap' - and we even get to see how an Alpha Tyrone (named Chris) plays the game at the end.  

In Conclusion - The Social Gap is Widening :
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This information is given to you, but what you do with it is only up for you to decide.  The important thing to know though, is ANY improvement you make in leveling up your 'social IQ' will give you a huge advantage in life.

Not only with women you interact with, but at work and at your social activities with the other men as well so you won't get manipulated or treated as 'lesser'.