Stop Putting Women on a Pedestal

This page will break down how to stop putting women on a pedestal.  Our society and culture has created an environment where many 'normal' situations that men put up with around women, are not actually 'normal' when you think logically.

Learn how to look at these situations with a 'redpill' filter so you don't get taken advantage of or treated like her little Beta 'Simp'

The Question :
What does Putting Her on a Pedestal Mean?
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Putting a woman on a pedestal simply means you are treating her different (more favorably) because she is a woman.

Even though it may not be completely clear right now how often you or guy friends of yours ARE giving women special treatment, there are 7 'social scenarios' we are going to cover that will show you how obvious it is when compared to how you would treat another man in the same situation.  

The Goal :
Stop Putting Women on a Pedestal
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The goal is to stop putting women on a pedestal - which will help you make clear-headed choices around women.

It will take some practice, but you can start training your mind to re-look at common social scenarios using a 'filter' of treating a woman like an equal.

And as a bonus - the LESS you put a woman on a pedestal, the MORE she is actually going to be attracted to you.  

The Mindset :
Treat Her Like an EQUAL
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The 'modern woman' today says she is all about equality right?  So let's start basic.  This is the foundation.  

Sex is something both people are equally giving each other.

Just two EQUAL and willing partners.  It is not some 'reward' a woman gives you or something you as the man must 'earn'.  You are both equals.  

Now keep this as the foundation mindset as we explore some of these social scenarios.  

The Filter -
"Would I still be doing this... IF?" :
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The filter to start using as you look around your day-to-day situations with women is...

"If she were a man, would I still be doing this?"

 That is your Superman x-ray vision to see through the BS blue-pill Matrix of dating.

Warning - Do NOT  use this filter when you are in the middle of any sexual act with a woman... unless you're into that 

Scenario 1 - Meeting Someone New :
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Imagine the scenario of a man and a woman meeting.  A woman may say things like: 

"I expect a man to ask for my number"
"I never text a guy first"
"If he puts in effort maybe I'll agree to go out with him"

And most men go along with this expectation.  

Scenario 1 - Meeting Someone New :
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Let's try on our new Superman filter.  Imagine you are out somewhere and you meet a random guy.  What would your thoughts be if he were to say:

"I expect YOU to ask for my number"
"You are going to have to text me first"
"If you put in effort... maybe I'll agree to hangout with you sometime"

Would you or ANY straight man agree to that type of relationship or expectation with a new guy you met?  

Scenario 2 - Getting Dinner :
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So after you meet a random new woman, she says something like:

"If you want to get to know me, you have to take me out for dinner and drinks first." 

This is very much a common scenario today that most men go along with.  In fact many men are HAPPY to pay for dinner and drinks just to spend time with her.    

Scenario 2 - Getting Dinner :
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Take out your Superman filter.  Imagine you meet a random guy, and he says something like:

"If you want to get to know me, you have to take me out for dinner and drinks first." 

You would look at him like he is crazy.  You would probably laugh in his face, and move on with your life.

Scenario 3 - Living Together :
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If it comes time to potentially move in with a woman, here is a common mindset you will hear from her:

"I expect the man in my life to pay rent and take care of my bills."

This gets interesting since many men still feel responsible for being the 'provider' in a relationship because traditionally that is what we have been.  So many men get sucked into paying for her rent and bills.  

Scenario 3 - Living Together :
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Now imagine a guy comes up to you and he is looking for a roommate.  He says something like this:

"I expect my roommate to pay my rent and take care of my bills."

Again - you would just laugh at him and continue your search for a reasonable roommate.  There is almost no way that any sane man would take another man up on that deal.  

Scenario 4 - Traveling/Vacations :
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You meet a woman and find out that she loves to travel.  Then she says something like this:

"I love to travel and it's important to me to find a man that can financially support my lifestyle."

 Now of course, not all men will buy into this.  But in todays society there are so many men that feel required to pay for a woman's vacations/travel and any adventure they go on.  And the fact that so many 'Sugar Daddies' will provide that for young women today, more and more women are expecting this treatment from a man.  

Scenario 4 - Traveling/Vacations :
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Superman filter on.  Now let's say you meet a man and find out that he loves to travel.  Then he says something like this:

"I love to travel and it's important to me to find a friend that can financially support my lifestyle."

Without a question, you are not taking this guy seriously.  There is not a chance you would want to become this guys 'friend' if he expected you to financially pay for all his vacations and travel.  

Scenario 5 - Texting :
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Let's say you are seeing a woman or dating her and she says something like:

"When I text you I know your phone is on you and I expect a quick reply."

 A LOT of guys immediately fold and start to change their texting habits to comply with her request.  

Scenario 5 - Texting :
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Superman filter on.  Now let's say you just became friends with a random new guy.  And he says something like this:

"When I text you I know your phone is on you and I expect a quick reply."

You would probably see this dude as totally 'needy' and either ignore his requests, call him out for being a weirdo, or just stop being friends with him.  

Scenario 6 - Phone Calls :
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Imagine a scenario where you are seeing a woman or getting to know her and she says something like:

"If you don't take the time to call me every night before bed, you don't deserve me in your life."

 This is even more of a burden than texting because it takes your attention and focus to have a phone call with her which prevents you from doing other things (like working on your mission and purpose in life).  

Scenario 6 - Phone Calls :
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Superman filter on.  A new guy friend you are starting to get to know says something like this:

"If you don't take the time to call me every night before bed, you don't deserve me in your life."

LOL.  You would consider this guy a super-Beta pussy.  You wouldn't dream of agreeing to something that would restrict your daily freedom like that with a guy. 

Scenario 7 - Marriage Contract :
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This one is the MOST important.  Too many guys get pressured from society, culture, and women to dive into the MARRIAGE contract.  Imagine you have been dating a woman and eventually she says something like:

"If you really care about me and are committed you will show me by getting married."

That is definitely the type of words she might use.  But really consider what she is asking.  She is actually asking you to sign a contract with the government that allows her to legally take half of all of your things you've worked your entire life for if you ever have a falling out.

(or if she as the woman just loses the 'sparks')

Scenario 7 - Business Contract :
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To really put into perspective this idea of 'marriage' in the modern world with these corrupt court systems, let's take that Superman filter and imagine a buddy of yours comes to you with a proposal.  He says something like:

"If you really care about my friendship and are committed to it, you will sign a contract giving me legal rights to half of all of your things if we ever have a falling out."

Now of course I understand the appeal of marriage for a family and life together with a woman.  BUT in today's day and age that is asking to put ALL of the risk on the man, and only upside for the woman you are marrying.  While leaving the corrupt government and court systems to deal with any of the legal falling out between you two.  

In Conclusion -
Treat Her Like an Equal :
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In conclusion, use this filter of -

"If she were a guy would I still be doing this?"

Would you still be putting up with this?
Would you still be bending over backwards?
Would you still be complying to this?

If the answer is NO, then don't do it for her.  That will help train your mind to stop putting women on a pedestal.  Make her earn special treatment because she is a special person, NOT just because she is a woman.