Real Dating App Conversation Breakdown

This page will help you understand some key advanced communication concepts by taking you from matching with a woman all the way to getting her phone number.

This will help show you many messaging principles IN ACTION that will make dating online more enjoyable for you and for women you message 

*This entire dating apps strategy system is broken down in more detail inside PrinceFlix VIP*

The Goal : 
Stop Believing These 2 Myths

Most men are stuck believing they need to communicate and compliment women MORE - especially when meeting on an online dating app.

Although that makes sense logically because women say that is what they want - by doing these things TOO MUCH it really works in reverse and makes a woman less interested in the men that do this.  

Start Slow :
Whether Texting or Messaging Online, be Patient

Andrea started with a very short opening message.  And the idea with 'Mirror Texting' is you want to always TRY to do less than the woman you are messaging.

Take longer timing wise to reply, and put less 'energy' and 'effort' in.  

How can I try to do that here? 

By replying to her short opener with just a 'giphy' or an animated picture on the dating app Bumble.

When Women 'Chase' You :
Let Them Keep Chasing

This is going to be hard for a lot of men to do at first. 

Remember you are fighting against years and years and years of brainwashing from mainstream media, movies, TV shows, and other men and women around you telling you to PURSUE and go after the woman you like.  

WRONG

That is why I am here.  To show you a new way.  A BETTER way.  And these are the moments that matter in messaging conversations.   

Prince Quiz :
Take a Moment to Analyze Your Next Move

Pause for a minute and reflect on how YOU would respond to a message like this from a woman?

"You have a great smile :)"

Don't wait for my answer - quiz yourself so you can see where your 'mind programming' is at this very moment.

HOW WOULD YOU RESPOND TO HER MESSAGE?

Establish Authority :
When Consistent, She Will Let You Lead Her

The first part of my response is big here.  At 1 level I am building rapport and comfort with her by 'mirroring' the structure of my sentence to be very similar to hers.

(This can be powerful on dating apps because it can be a challenge to build 'rapport' early on)

More than that though I am doing 2 advanced concepts - Being an 'Authority' and 'Shaping' her to be sweet.

By giving her +2 points I am in a sense being an 'authority' in her life, because I am in charge of giving her points or taking them away.

SUBTLE BUT POWERFUL OVER TIME

Along with this I am rewarding her for being 'sweet' - which is shaping or molding a woman to be sweet to me in the future.

I reward GOOD behavior so I get more of that with women.  Most men reward BAD behavior and get walked all over by women.  

Always Be Aware of Hypergamy :
It Can Strike at Anytime

To simplify what this means on dating apps is basically IF a woman feels confident that she 'has you' or could get you into a relationship with her if she wanted to...

Then she will have 1 foot 'out the door' always looking for a better man.

That is a simple way to see it, but IF she feels she 'has you' her innate Hypergamy wants to look for 'better' or a man that is 'higher than her'.  

The Problem with Hypergamy Today -
Her 'Standards' Become Ultra Crazy High

One more point here on Hypergamy before getting back to the text convo... is that because women are able to so easily match and message so many different men -

Hey Hypergamy is on almost 'hyper drive' - because she has all of these choices with men, THAT is why she will so easily move on from a guy that doesn't understand 'game' and know how to keep her emotions guessing.

I'll repeat - with todays women on dating apps, if you let her think she 'has you' or you are way more interested in her than she is into you, she will EMOTIONALLY leave the conversation completely.

You Don't Need to Compliment Her Back -
Instead, Keep Her Subtly 'Working'

Most men compliment women way too often.  Which already gets her 'Hypergamy' ready to look for other men because you are too easy.  

Even when Andrea here complimented me first, I still do not feel the need to compliment her back.

Why? 

I want my compliments to be meaningful so I want her to really earn it.  Instead I keep Andrea 'working' in a sense by having her 'Tell me a secret'.

Early Dating App Messaging Should Be Fun-
Keep it Light and Playful, Not Heavy or Serious

Messaging women on dating apps is NOT about getting to know her, or her getting to know you.  

It's about 'the dance' and mostly what you are NOT saying. 

The true art is in being able to send a lot less texts than you used to...

While making each text have a positive impact on the woman you message.

THIS IS WHY I constantly add new text conversation breakdown videos to VIP membership - because every woman has a different 'flavor' so to speak.

But the more you see my messaging principles work on all different 'flavors' of women...

The more you see how important it is at a base level to trigger a woman's emotions

No Need to Directly Compliment -
Women Read Between the Lines

Remember that us men communicate more straightforward and direct than women do.  Another reason I don't need to compliment her is because she can read in between the lines and know that I am interested in her from my messages.

When I say:

"Are you going to take me with?" 

It obviously signals I am somewhat interested or else I wouldn't say that.  And now the 'game' for a woman is to try to get you to DIRECTLY show interest

(But when you do, it becomes less fun for her)

Never Rush the Phone Number -
But When You Feel It's Ready Go for It

This comes with experience.  After me replying to her text the next day, she replied to my text within minutes.

That added onto my innate 'intuition' from doing this for so long and so many times that she was ready to text me.

My philosophy is to always give a woman my number.

I want her to initiate the texting because it is another sign revealing her interest level to me.

To all the guys that try to ASK for a woman's number, you are wasting so many opportunities of being able to gauge how interested a woman is in you.

And Now We Text -
But SHE Is the One 'Pursuing' at This Point

As an overall lesson I don't want to give you the wrong idea that you should be getting a woman's phone number after sending just 4 texts.

The lesson to really take home here is that you don't need to say MORE to women.  You don't need to reply QUICKER to women.  The opposite is true. 

Most men are playing this game SO backwards and wrong, that women like Andrea are happy to start texting a man that 'gets it'.   

And i'm going to try to help teach you to become one of those men.