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Helping Men Reclaim Their Power in the Dating Game

Should you tell a woman how you feel over texting? Apr 11, 2018

Video Recap:  You want to be UNCLEAR in your feelings early in the dating stage with women.  LATER when you have an exclusive relationship, THEN it is okay to show your feelings but that comes AFTER the attraction part.  

So attraction comes FIRST.

And women are attracted to...

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When to Compliment Women in Texting Mar 21, 2018

Video Recap: Send LESS compliments to women so that they mean MORE when you do send one 

 
Have you ever wanted to compliment a woman but didn't know WHEN or HOW?

As men, it is important that we rarely give out compliments when we are first getting to know a woman.

This isn't to be...

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Women Want Less Effort From Men | Common Texting Mistakes Men Make Mar 12, 2018

Video Recap:  Women are attracted to men who put LESS effort into the texting conversations (at first) 

This one is sometimes confusing for us guys...

As men we are raised that we are supposed to 'pursue' the woman we want and keep putting effort in until she likes us.

The problem is,...

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The Book of Joy by Douglas Abrams (book review) Mar 06, 2018

Video Recap:  If you are searching for more happiness, purpose, or fulfillment in your life, The Book of Joy by Douglas Abrams will be a good read.

One of my big goals I set for myself each year is to read 100 books.

The beauty of books is that you can take the best wisdom and...

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The myth of having just one soulmate Feb 28, 2018

Video Recap:  If you believe there is only ONE person out there for you, it'll make you act needy and put too much pressure on the other person... which will create an unhealthy relationship between you two

Have you ever thought there was just ONE woman out there for you?

Have you...

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The BIGGEST Mistake Men Make on Tinder Feb 22, 2018


Video Recap:  BE SELECTIVE WITH WHO YOU 'SWIPE RIGHT' ON WHEN ONLINE DATING!

This is a warning to all single men out there who want more matches on Tinder. 

Some guys think that playing the 'numbers game' by just Swiping right on every single girl is the best way to start talking to...

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SEXTING: You Are the Prize (REAL text example) Feb 16, 2018

Video Recap:  Always remember that YOU are the prize!

What do I mean by this?

I mean that in any conversation... especially when you are trying to make it hot and heavy... always remember what YOU have to offer.

I used to make the mistake of thinking I didn't deserve all this attention or...

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Start slow when texting a girl for the first time Feb 10, 2018

Video Recap: Whenever you meet a new woman online or get a woman's number, always START SLOW when you message her.

What does it mean to 'start slow'?

A few things...

1) Start slow with your response time - 

By starting slow you give her time to become more comfortable with you.  If...

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Let women read between the lines (online dating advice) Feb 04, 2018


Video Recap: As guys we sometimes over explain ourselves to women.  Since women like to connect and 'read between the lines', it is much better to talk LESS and let her CONNECT the dots more.

 

This is one of those weird rules/habits to get used to because as men we really value clarity...

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Power Dynamics Between Men and Women Jan 22, 2018

You may have heard that sometimes women put men through 'tests' to see how they handle themselves in the early stages of dating.

This is just part of the 'power dynamics' or subtle power games that are always at play in the early stages of dating

(even if YOU don't want them to be at play, and...

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