Women Complain About Dating 'Double Standards'

Today we have some #tiktok women complaining about the 'double standards' in dating. Specifically we are going to break down the 'bodycount' double standard between men and women.

A persons 'bodycount' is referring to the number (count) of people (bodies) that person has slept with.

Of course if everything was equal between men and women, there would be no 'double standard'.  However there are quite a few factors of WHY it IS a double standard between men and women.

Shoutout to the 'John Trench' comment of breaking down this body count standard.  

He states that women have a different pair-bonding strategy than men.  When a woman sleeps with a man her brain floods her with the chemicals oxytocin and dopamine.  This helps rapidly 'bond' her to the man she is sleeping with.

WHY?  Because for a woman to get pregnant she becomes extremely vulnerable for 9 months.  She needs this 'pair-bonding' strategy to do the things necessary to get the man that impregnated her to protect and provide for her and help her raise the child.  

On the opposite end, men are able to get a woman pregnant with very low biological effort - meaning he theoretically could get hundreds of women pregnant a year - where a woman could only become pregnant 1-2 times a year.  Because of this men have developed the mating strategy of being opportunistic or 'hit it and quit it'... UNTIL they are with a woman long enough that they develop this pair-bond.

Definitely more in the video so make sure to check it out.  

Shoutout to @ReplicantPhish on youtube - he has a solid channel and is a great subscribe if you haven't yet - a comment from his video is the main inspiration for our breakdown today.

-Adam
Founder of TextingPrince