The #1 Problem With Relationships These Days...
This video is going to dive into one of the most under-talked about reasons that relationships end up failing.
That is the fact that women date or marry a man EXPECTING him to change. Men date or marry a woman EXPECTING her not to change. They both end up unhappy.
This is video 5 of the series and is breaking down some concepts from the book The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar.
Think about how interesting this concept is
Women spend so much time 're-creating' themselves through different hairstyles, outfits, makeup, etc.
So to women, it makes sense that they also expect men to do the same thing. They would expect men in a sense to 're-create' themselves willy nilly like they do.
And thus we reach the BIG OL PROBLEM that men and women today are running into...
Women date or marry a man and EXPECT him to change. Since women are constantly changing, she expects that a man will do the same. This means she may ignore certain behaviors or habits that a man does, and in the back of her mind she thinks he will change eventually. Or that she can get him to change eventually.
Men date or marry a woman and EXPECT her NOT to change. Men will date or marry a woman and think that what he is dating or what he is marrying is what he is getting longterm. But... women are constantly recreating themselves so many times a man will marry a woman and hope that he and her can grow old together just like they are.
They BOTH end up disappointed in the end
And this leads me back to a warning for all men out there... if you marry a woman you take on extreme LEGAL risks if you guys break up. Of course do whatever you want, but I would NOT recommend getting legally married in this day and age until laws are changed.
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